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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.9.1 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Tue, 09 Feb 2010 02:34:27 GMT--><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"><title>Sexy Cities Guides</title><subtitle>Sexy Cities Guide Blog</subtitle><id>http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/</id><link rel="alternate" type="application/xhtml+xml" href="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/"/><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/atom.xml"/><updated>2010-02-08T16:57:53Z</updated><generator uri="http://www.squarespace.com/" version="Squarespace Site Server v5.9.1 (http://www.squarespace.com/)">Squarespace</generator><entry><title>Are the French really more romantic?</title><category term="Culture"/><category term="France"/><category term="French Women"/><category term="French lover"/><category term="Parisians"/><category term="dating"/><category term="men"/><category term="romance"/><category term="romantic"/><category term="women"/><id>http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/are-the-french-really-more-romantic.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/are-the-french-really-more-romantic.html"/><author><name>Heather</name></author><published>2010-02-07T21:46:16Z</published><updated>2010-02-07T21:46:16Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>In October 2009 I spoke on a panel at the British Ambassador's Residence as part of the <a href="http://www.soshelpline.org/events.html">"Writers at the Residence" fundraiser for SOS Helpline</a>. The theme was "French Stereotypes", and I was asked by the moderator Bryce Corbett about the stereotype of the "Romantic French Lover":</p>
<p><object width="320" height="265"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/uWI7iUQtAkk&hl=en_GB&fs=1&"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/uWI7iUQtAkk&hl=en_GB&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="320" height="265"></embed></object></p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Win a copy of Naughty Paris from the French Paper</title><category term="Contests"/><category term="French Paper"/><category term="drawing"/><category term="free"/><category term="giveaway"/><id>http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/win-a-copy-of-naughty-paris-from-the-french-paper.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/win-a-copy-of-naughty-paris-from-the-french-paper.html"/><author><name>Heather</name></author><published>2010-02-05T20:48:11Z</published><updated>2010-02-05T20:48:11Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.thefrenchpaper.com/" target="_blank"><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 85px;" src="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/storage/behind-the-scenes/Frenchpaper.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1265626255100" alt="" /></span></span></a>The monthly English-language newspaper,<a href="http://www.thefrenchpaper.com/" target="_blank"> The French Paper</a>, is <strong>giving away five copies of the</strong> <strong>Naughty Paris Guide</strong>. To enter the drawing, pick up a copy of the paper from international newsstands throughout France (and at WH Smith in Paris).</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Valentine's Day Events: For Each Other...or Yourself!</title><category term="Drinking &amp; Dining"/><category term="Naughty Fun"/><category term="Paris Nightlife"/><category term="VIP ROOM"/><category term="bartending"/><category term="book signing"/><category term="cocktails"/><category term="cooking classes"/><category term="macarons"/><category term="nightclub"/><category term="pastries"/><id>http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/valentines-day-events-for-each-otheror-yourself.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/valentines-day-events-for-each-otheror-yourself.html"/><author><name>Heather</name></author><published>2010-02-02T11:00:51Z</published><updated>2010-02-02T11:00:51Z</updated><summary type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[Looking for something fun and indulgent to do this Valentine's Day? Whether it's with your lover or just for yourself, join us at these two Naughty Paris events...]]></summary></entry><entry><title>Naughty Paris Tours</title><category term="Events"/><category term="Paris"/><category term="Travel"/><category term="bachelorette"/><category term="burlesque"/><category term="hen parties"/><category term="ladies tours"/><category term="pole dance"/><category term="shopping"/><id>http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/naughty-paris-tours.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/naughty-paris-tours.html"/><author><name>Heather</name></author><published>2010-01-26T12:45:34Z</published><updated>2010-01-26T12:45:34Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>From decadent to downright naughty, let Heather help customize your next trip to Paris with the ladies. From an insider&rsquo;s tour of the erotic artworks in the Louvre and Mus&eacute;e d&rsquo;Orsay to a burlesque dance class or naughty night on the town, everything is possible. <br /> <br /> A sample of a &ldquo;discreet&rdquo; ladies tour? Discover the secret addresses of those captivating Parisian women, with a guided shopping tour of discreet lingerie boutiques, sexy shoes shops, custom corset designers, or opulent perfume houses, with a petite pause for gourmet pastries and a glass of Champagne. Full afternoon, &euro;325 for up to five ladies.</p>
<p>Email Heather for more details: <a href="mailto:naughtyparis@gmail.com">naughtyparis@gmail.com</a></p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Very Naughty London</title><category term="Erotic Dilettantes"/><category term="Fanny &amp; Robin"/><category term="London"/><category term="Naughty Sites"/><category term="Travel"/><category term="website"/><id>http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/very-naughty-london.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/very-naughty-london.html"/><author><name>Heather</name></author><published>2010-01-19T11:49:39Z</published><updated>2010-01-19T11:49:39Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 250px;" src="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/storage/london/please_sir_we_want_some_more.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1263902320595" alt="" /></span></span>London is such a fabulously naughty place, a fun place for women to let their hair down and go out on the town. While waiting for the Naughty London Guide, your best bet for the insider scoop is to visit the site, <strong><a href="http://pleasesirwewantsomemore.blogspot.com/">Please Sir, We Want Some More!</a></strong> by the Erotic Dilettantes Robin &amp; Fanny. Shopping, events, nightlife and every stripe of naughtiness to bring out your adventurous side.</p>
<p>And the site is just gorgeous! I may have to steal their designer. ;)</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Join Us for the Ladies-Only Happy Hour</title><category term="Drinking &amp; Dining"/><category term="Happy Hour"/><category term="Meet the Locals"/><category term="Panfoulia"/><category term="cocktails"/><category term="ladies"/><id>http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/join-us-for-the-ladies-only-happy-hour.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/join-us-for-the-ladies-only-happy-hour.html"/><author><name>Heather</name></author><published>2010-01-14T13:22:31Z</published><updated>2010-01-14T13:22:31Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>Join <a href="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/buy/">Naughty Paris</a> author Heather Stimmler-Hall and <a href="http://www.gadabout.biz/paris/">Gadabout Paris </a>editor Michelle Rogers-Estable for a <strong>Ladies-Only Happy Hour</strong> on January 27 at <a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Paris-France/La-Panfoulia/174699513357">Panfoulia </a>in the Marais.</p>
<p><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/storage/events-images/bar.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1263476618570" alt="" width="215" height="322" /></span></span>The Happy Hours are casual soir&eacute;es of mingling and networking with the ladies of the Paris Urban Adventures Meetup. And this month, since Heather is starting her research for the second edition of the <strong>Naughty Paris Guide</strong>, she's hoping you'll share your favorite Paris addresses, from intimate restaurants and fabulous spas to naughty boutiques and the newest dance venues.</p>
<p>Join Heather and Michelle upstairs from 6:30-9pm. There is no fee to attend, Happy Hour drinks (and food) are available from the bar.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Paris-France/La-Panfoulia/174699513357">Panfoulia </a>(upstairs)<br />7 Rue Ste-Croix de la Bretonnerie, 4th<br />M&eacute;tro St Paul or Hotel de Ville</strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: 110%;"><a href="http://www.meetup.com/parisurbanadventures/calendar/12317419/">RSVP at the Paris Urban Adventures Meetup site.</a></span></strong></p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Holiday Special: €5 off all orders through January 1st</title><category term="The Naughty Paris Guide"/><category term="discount"/><category term="holiday sale"/><id>http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/holiday-special-5-off-all-orders-through-january-1st.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/holiday-special-5-off-all-orders-through-january-1st.html"/><author><name>Heather</name></author><published>2009-12-13T19:59:56Z</published><updated>2009-12-13T19:59:56Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/picture/naughtyparis_cover_lowres4.jpg?pictureId=1344115&amp;asGalleryImage=true&amp;__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1260734703614" alt="" /></span></span>"Naughty Paris" is the perfect gift for all the ladies in your life, and now you can <strong>get &euro;5/$7 off all orders</strong> -- including the book, the eBook, or both! -- through January 1st, 2010. When <a href="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/buy/">ordering</a>, just type in the discount code: <strong>HoHoHo</strong>.</p>
<p>Have a nice and naughty holiday season!</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Now at the Louvre Museum!</title><category term="Louvre"/><category term="Musée de l'Erotisme"/><category term="Quai Branly"/><category term="The Naughty Paris Guide"/><category term="bookshop"/><category term="museum"/><id>http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/now-at-the-louvre-museum.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/now-at-the-louvre-museum.html"/><author><name>Heather</name></author><published>2009-12-12T21:42:47Z</published><updated>2009-12-12T21:42:47Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/storage/behind-the-scenes/Naughty_Paris_au_Louvre.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1260654470053" alt="" /></span></span>The <a href="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/in-stores/">Naughty Paris Guide</a> can now be found at the <a href="http://www.boutiquesdemusees.fr/fr/boutique/musees/musee-du-louvre">Mus&eacute;e du Louvre Bookshop</a>, as well as the gift shop of the <a href="http://www.quaibranly.fr/">Mus&eacute;e du Quai Branly</a> and the <a href="http://www.musee-erotisme.com/">Mus&eacute;e de l'Erotisme</a>. For more store locations<a href="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/in-stores/"> look here</a>.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Shake It Baby! Cocktail-Making Classes</title><category term="La Cuisine"/><category term="Le Cercle"/><category term="Naughty Fun"/><category term="Paris kitchen"/><category term="cocktails"/><category term="cooking class"/><category term="mixology class"/><id>http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/shake-it-baby-cocktail-making-classes.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/shake-it-baby-cocktail-making-classes.html"/><author><name>Heather</name></author><published>2009-12-06T12:02:04Z</published><updated>2009-12-06T12:02:04Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/storage/naughty-fun/DSC01606.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1260103997706" alt="" /></span></span>Last night I took a cocktail-making class at <a href="http://www.lacuisineparis.com/">La Cuisine</a> (89 boulevard St-Michel, 5th). I was actually a bartender for a year in my college town in Minnesota and then at an Irish pub in Paris, but that was over a decade ago, and cocktails have come a long way since the Long Island Iced Teas, White Russians and Kamikazes of the 1990s.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Making cocktails is more than just mixing up some ingredients in pretty glasses. First, you have to have the right ingredients. Like cooking, anything tastes better when you have the highest quality ingredients possible. In this case, don't scrimp on quality liquor and mixers. We're not students anymore! Don't you dare serve a premium vodka that costs &euro;85/bottle with an old carton of pasteurized orange juice. Even the ice is important. "You should use mineral water to make your ice cubes," says our young instructor, Fr&eacute;d&eacute;ric, a bartender in the trendy Montorgueil district.</p>
<p>There were six of us in the class, gathered by two at our stations around the spacious granite island in the second of the two working kitchens at La Cuisine. The 90-minute class would teach us how to make six cocktails, three classic (even vintage) drinks and three contemporary cocktails. To begin, Fr&eacute;d&eacute;ric explained each of the cocktail-making tools, from the spoon and shaker to the strainer and masher. It's always a bit awkward at first handling the materials. This is what makes these classes so great: not only do you learn recipies for making yummy drinks, you get to practice your moves in advance so you don't look silly doing it in front of your friends later on.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Not that we were juggling bottles or anything fancy like that, but we did learn the proper way to hold the strainer on the shaker, how to dislodge the glass from the shaker without breaking it, and how to carmelize citrus zest without setting anything on fire. Our patient instructor also gave us plenty of tips on how to properly chill the glasses, how to get a few drops of bitters out of the bottle without getting it all over the place, and how to pour shots Japanese-style. He explained the origin and use for all the liquors we used, including the rather new St-Germain elderflower liquor. We used straws to taste everything and small sips of our drinks (so we wouldn't be too drunk to make the final drink).&nbsp;</p>
<p>We turned on some fun music and commenced our mixing, munching on some nibbles and comparing techniques on getting an eggwhite with the least mess. The atmosphere is fun and easy, there are no tests at the end -- aside from the taste tests. We finished with a good buzz and an arsenal of tips and tricks for our next house party. ;)</p>
<p>The next Cocktails &amp; Mixologie Class is December 19, 5-6:30pm, with the bilingual Fr&eacute;d&eacute;ric at the helm. The cost is &euro;45/person, and you'll learn to make six cocktails: Le Martinez (1860), Whisky Sour (1860), Moscow Mule (1941), and new drinks Le Tommy's Margarita, Gin Basil Smash and the Elderflower Martini. Sign up <a href="http://www.lacuisineparis.com/index.php?article_id=110&amp;clang=0">online at La Cuisine</a>, or check out their other cooking and baking classes, in English and French.&nbsp;</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Book Review: Moonlight in Odessa</title><category term="Book Review"/><category term="Culture"/><category term="Janet Skeslien Charles"/><category term="Moonlight in Odessa"/><category term="book"/><category term="review"/><id>http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/book-review-moonlight-in-odessa.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/naughty-blog/book-review-moonlight-in-odessa.html"/><author><name>Heather</name></author><published>2009-11-09T14:02:32Z</published><updated>2009-11-09T14:02:32Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1596916729?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=secrofpari-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1596916729" target="_blank"><img src="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/storage/naughty-culture/odessa_brit_cover_small.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1257781936331" alt="" /></a></span></span>I just finished reading <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1596916729?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=secrofpari-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1596916729" target="_blank"><em>Moonlight in Odessa</em></a>, the first novel by American-born Paris expat<a href="http://www.jskesliencharles.com/" target="_blank"> Janet Skeslien</a><a href="http://www.jskesliencharles.com/" target="_blank"> Charles</a>.</p>
<p>Most Anglophone writers in Paris know Janet from the famous Shakespeare &amp; Company bookstore, where she has taught a writing workshop for several years. As one of her former students I was thrilled to hear about her published book. And like a new baby or Beaujolais Nouveau, everyone celebrates the arrival, and it isn't important whether it's any good.</p>
<p>But of course <em>Moonlight in Odessa</em> is not just good, it's hard to put down! Here is the back cover description:</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<blockquote>
<p>"After months pf searching, twenty-three-year-old Daria, armed with perfect English and an engineering degree, finds a job at a big foreign company in Odessa. Unfortunately, her boss makes it clear that sleeping with him is the first item on her to-do list.</p>
<p>Daria evades his advances by setting him up with her neighbor, the slippery Olga. But soon Olga sets her sights on Daria's job, and Daria finds herself moonlighting as an interpreter at Soviet Unions, a matchmaking agency. As she bridges the language gaps between desperate Odessa women and lonely foreign men, Daria finds herself tempted by the American Dream, and faces the choice between her beloved city and the West, between a sexy, irresponsible mobster and a gentle teacher.</p>
<p>Exploring the booming business of email-order brides, an industry where love and marriage collise with sex and money, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Moonlight in Odesssa</span> is a darkly humorous debut about the choices and sacrifices we make in pursuit of love and stability, and the lengths we will go to for a happy ending."</p>
</blockquote>
<p>Of course, there is a twist. More than one! But without giving too much of the story away I can say that what impressed me the most was how the characters acted illogically at towns. Some critics say that you can't create a smart, independent woman and then have her act in a silly, irresponsible way. <em>Au contraire!</em></p>
<p>How many times have <strong>you, </strong>a savvy and intelligent adult, done something that is so completely idiotic that you can only sheepishly shrug your shoulders later when you've come back to your senses? And of course most of the things we do that we wish we didn't involve the opposite sex. The same is true for Daria, as well as her would-be suitors, who each in turn act in ways that are sometimes honorable but usually awful, simply because they want Daria to love them.</p>
<p>Of course the protagonist has to face the consequences of her bad choices, but she eventually figures out who she is and -- most important -- who she is not. It's always heartening to see someone, real or fictional, who learns something from their mistakes and makes the decision to move on with life. This is a great book for all women who need a bit of a kick in the <em>derri&egrave;re </em>when it comes to their love life.</p>
<p>And kudos to an author who has enough sense to make the ending just a bit ambiguous. I chalk that up to her decade of living in France, a country that has mastered the art of subtlety. No one needs to be smacked over the head with the Hollywood ending.</p>
<p>Finally, the novel is a great introduction to the city of Odessa (Janet even has a<a href="http://www.jskesliencharles.com" target="_blank"> guided photo tour of the city on her website</a> so you can see the places that are mentioned in the book), and the way of life in post-communist Ukraine, including a look on the other side of the mail-order bride industry.</p>
<p>I highly recommend <em>Moonlight in Odessa</em>, which you can find in paperback in Europe (UK launch in February) and in hardback in the US/Canada.</p>
<p><strong>If you're in Paris, Janet will be reading and signing books at two events:</strong>&nbsp;</p>
<p>November 12 at the American Library (10, rue du G&eacute;n&eacute;ral Camou, 75007 Paris 01 53 59 12 60)<br /> Talk: A discussion of how to take a subject that fascinates you as a writer and transform it into a subject that will interest your reader. We will also talk about the process of writing and research.</p>
<p>February 15 at 7 pm at Shakespeare &amp; Co (37, rue de la B&ucirc;cherie, 75005 Paris 01 43 25 40 93).</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.naughtyparisguide.com/storage/naughty-culture/JanetBookLaunch.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1257781969493" alt="" /></span></span><br /><strong>Janet and me at the book launch party in October 2009. </strong></p>]]></content></entry></feed>